
Community and Events
A virtual community dedicated to becoming the best versions of ourselves
and embracing our relationships with honesty and integrity
You deserve to connect with other humans
who value healthy happy relationships.
As humans, we thrive in a community where we can support one another on our journeys, learn from each other, and be held accountable to our values.
You might have spaces for this in areas of your individual life – but when it comes to relationship intelligence, growth, and accountability, you’ve probably been missing community for a long time… maybe forever.
But finally here it is.
Loving Longer is committed to offering:
- Free community letters delivered direct to your inbox offering inspirational psychoeducation to expand your relationship intelligence, rooted in clinical data, anecdotal data, sociological trends, existential psychology, and sometimes even philosophy
- Virtual gatherings to foster connection across the globe for individuals and couples who share our values and mission
- A respectful environment where judgment, harassment, and disrespect are not tolerated and abusers will be removed from community spaces immediately
- Support and guidance from my 10+ years of experience working with couples but more importantly the wisdom of the collective community
November 2, 2026 – February 8, 2027 — ONLINE
4-Month LIVE Financial Intimacy Masterclass
Create a lasting financial partnership through a values-based approach to managing money in your relationship.
Improve your communication, insight, and strategy so you can operate as financial partners – regardless of who has a heavier hand in “managing” the finances.
Boost the connection and intimacy between you. (Sometimes foreplay starts with the budget.)
Based on my work with hundreds of couples navigating difficult conversations about money, this workshop is designed to support you and your partner in learning more positive and connecting ways to talk about your household finances. Whether you learned how to manage your money or not (or have a lot of it or only a little), this 4-month masterclass will help strengthen your relationship by offering a new perspective on what it means to be a financial partnership.
Beginning with exploring your values related to money, you’ll move on to identifying personal and shared goals, establishing insight into your current financial position, and learning together how to re-align your spending and saving habits to match what is important to each of you.
While most discussions will occur privately between you and your partner, group discussions will offer you community in the shared challenges and struggles of other couples just like you. You’ll also receive brief individualized support directly from me during the workshop.
In order to make this workshop most effective, be prepared to do some homework between gatherings.
After this workshop, you’ll walk away with:
- A clearer understanding of why talking about money can be so triggering to you or your partner
- Clarity on how to best support each other (while also not managing each other) to strengthen your financial partnership
- An idea of your personal and shared goals related to spending, saving, and debt
- Insight into your current financial habits and trajectory
- Ideas on how to organize your money and/or budget more efficiently together
- A new understanding of what it means to be financial partners so you can work towards a reality where neither of you have to be the gatekeeper for the other person’s spending
- Concrete plans, a schedule, and structured support to continue discussing money in a more meaningful and connecting way
Now here’s the deal…
I’ve been doing this with couples for almost a decade but this is the first time I’m offering this as a group class. After hearing dozens of times “I wish we had done this years ago,” I figured it could be a win-win for all of us! I can reach more couples to support them in fostering intimacy through their financial relationship together, and YOU get to benefit from that support for far less money than 1:1 coaching sessions would cost!
Since I’ve never offered this in a group format, I’m mostly wanting to learn. Which means this class is being offered for the first time at an incredibly low rate that won’t exist again: $300 per couple. Yes, that’s right. With 12 hours of live virtual class, that’s a heck of a deal.
So here’s what I’m asking from you in exchange for this low rate:
- Honest feedback about your experience so I can improve the class to be the best version of itself
- Referrals! Tell your friends about me. I’m passionate about supporting couples to have happy, connecting relationships in ALL domains of their partnership – including their finances. Help me help them 🙂
Schedule: Meeting biweekly to start and then monthly to set you up for success and put all your new insight and communication skills to the test. All classes are Monday evenings 5-7pm EST.
Dates: November 2, November 16, November 30, December 14, January 11, February 8 — all from 5-7pm EST
Cost: $300 per couple

November 2, 2026 – February 8, 2027 — ONLINE
4-Month LIVE Financial Intimacy Masterclass
12 hours of virtual class. 4 months of support. $300 per couple.
Community Letters
We know you love our live meet-ups, but sometimes life just feels too busy to commit the time.
This is why we started our community letters.
Once a month, Kelsey will send a love letter to your email, offering something to read and think about for the month.
These letters will often invite a response from you which might be shared (with your permission) in the next month’s community letter. You are never required to respond, but we always like to hear from you! And so do your other friends in the Loving Longer community!
Community letters may offer:
- Fun facts to improve your relational intelligence
- Research-supported psychoeducation for you to consider
- Humorous anecdotes to help you remember that relationship work requires lightness and a sense of humor
- Challenges or triumphs from other community members, so you know you’re not alone
- Ideas to foster connection and intimacy
- Reminders of upcoming events or specials offered through Loving Longer, as well as other respected resources and events that align with our values and mission
The best part is that these won’t feel like spam and you won’t want to delete them. Each letter will feel like you’re hearing from a friend who you just happen to be able to talk about relationships intimately with.
Finally, you’ll wish your email still said “you’ve got mail!”
Please sign me up to receive letters from Loving Longer!